Everyone wants their relationships to be happy, but often it’s not the case. What can you do to change that? The truth is that it’s the small details that count. That’s why you should be treating each day as an opportunity to do something for your partner, and surprising them with flowers is one of the easiest ways to do that.
Many men don’t buy their girlfriends and wives flowers because they think it’s cheesy or a waste of money. One of the most important things you can do in a relationship is to constantly try and see things from their point of view. Sure, you might think Valentine’s Day is stupid, but what if they don’t? Immediately writing something off without considering their feelings is a recipe for disaster. Instead of acting completely uninterested in what they like, get your local online flower delivery service to surprise them with roses on Valentine’s Day. They’ll appreciate it so much more because they already know that you are only doing it because they would appreciate it.
In truth, flowers aren’t a waste of money at all. They’re like giving chocolates or perfume. She’ll eat the chocolates and throw the box away. She’ll use the perfume and eventually throw it away. With flowers, she’ll get a beautiful decoration that will brighten many days. Each time she looks at it she’ll be reminded of how much you love her. More sentimental women can even preserve some of the flowers by pressing them. Or you could press one flower from each of the bouquets you get her to create a sweet and sentimental surprise for her.
If you’re married, the perfect anniversary gift is a bouquet of flowers of the same kind that you had at your wedding ceremony. These flowers will bring back memories of your special day for both of you. The fact that you remembered the exact flowers that were used however many years later will warm her heart and make her putty in your hands. This is important to remember – the type of flowers you select will have different effects on her.
While no woman will turn her nose up at a simple bouquet of red roses, going a bit further and getting something special like her favourite kinds of flowers (this shows that you listen) will be worth more to her.
You could also try sending her messages with your bouquets by including a book explaining the meaning of flowers. Purple flowers, for example, mean “I am sorry”. So the next time you’re in the dog house, you know what to do. If it’s the beginning of a relationship, white roses make a perfect gift since they signal “innocent love”. Buy two copies of a book detailing all the meanings and keep one for yourself to help you send messages to your loved one with beautiful bouquets.
Finally, don’t wait for a special occasion to send flowers. Pick random days in your calendar and put in flower reminders, along with the link to your online flower delivery service, so all you have to do is click and order.